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Monday, 25 August 2008

  • Better you than me? Or something like that

    You know, I’m fairly sure I’m glad I’m not an expecting mommy these days. Much as I’d still love to have a third, I’m not sure I’d care for all the interesting controversies that seem to abound everywhere. Now, not to get me wrong, my daughters are only ten and almost eight, but it seems like I had them in the dark ages compared to what’s discussed and all these days. Wow!

     

    To nurse or not to nurse? To vaccinate or not to vaccinate? To use cloth or to use disposable? To boppie or not to boppie?

     

    I really would have loved a boppie for Sophie… maaaaan. Color me jealous on that one.

     

    But it’s amazing how many controversies a new mommy has to wade through just to get to her baby. I am one of those mommies who didn’t nurse, who used disposables, let her children wander the kitchen in a walker, didn’t let them sleep in her bed and oh my… I actually just let them lay on a blanket in the living room (surrounded by oodles of toys) while I got my household chores done. I even let them just cry themselves to sleep. Okay, there were nights where I went absolutely berserk and either found myself pacing the yard out front or frantically calming my baby as best I could – it’s going to happen. And hey! I didn’t let my firstborn watch an iota of television during her first year although I slipped up big time with my second-born… maybe I was tired? Desperate? Oh no, I remember, the 2 ½ year old wasn’t up to entertaining her newborn sister unless it was bandaging her up or something else equally exciting and somewhat damaging while I wasn’t looking.

     

    My heart goes out to all you new mommies. You have a lot of big and major decisions to make that go far beyond the theme and color of your nursery. I have no advice except to say that you can only follow your heart. Educate yourself and don’t let wild and frantic cries of opinion sway you unless it’s your own baby’s cries for you. Do what’s best for your baby and yourself and remember that it’s not all about you or what others think, it’s about your child, and then it’s about you as well because you must be a well mommy as well to raise a well baby.

     

    Man though, that boppie would have been suh-weet!

Monday, 11 August 2008

  • Interesting article

    Just interesting, no opinion from me about anything except I read the article and it was intriguing and thought I'd share:

    Finland is #1!

    Finland's education success has the rest of the world looking north for answers.

    By Wayne D'Orio | August 2008
    Where are the education secrets?<br />
    Where are the education secrets?

    In this moment of time before the day-to-day rush of students, classes, and problems comes roaring back, every administrator finds him- or herself wondering occasionally about the big picture.

    Is there a better way to educate our students? Would tweaking the K–12 system we have now encourage improvement and meet children’s 21st-century needs? The biggest what-if, looking-out-the-window question remains: How would you construct an educational system if you could start from scratch?

    It turns out that not only does everyone ponder these timeless queries, but more and more groups of educators have been making a pilgrimage to northern Europe to see if the answers lie in a small country of just 5.3 million people: Finland.

    For a country that famously avoids competitive, high-stakes tests, Finland has been garnering a lot of acclaim for its students’ scores on the most recent Programme for International Student Assessment test. Finland’s 15-year-olds topped the science tests given two years ago, besting students from 56 other countries, from Argentina to Uruguay. Combined with its high scores on the most recent reading and math tests, this gives Finland teens the top ranking in the world.

     


    Secrets to Success
    With visions of imitating finland’s success back home, educators from 50 countries around the globe have visited the Nordic country over the past few years, including numerous groups from the United States.

    What they found was somewhat surprising. Although there are certainly pieces of the Finnish educational system that can be copied over here, the three biggest reasons for the country’s success are probably the hardest to replicate.

    First of all, “there is a near absence of poverty,” says Julie Walker, a board member of the Partnership for 21st Century Skills. Walker visited Finland, along with Sweden and Denmark, with a delegation from the Consortium of School Networking (CoSN) in late 2007. “They have socialized medicine and much more educational funding,” she adds. For residents, school lunches are free, preschool is free, college is free. “Children come to school ready to learn. They come to school healthy. That’s not a problem the United States has solved yet.”

    The second reason is all students’ fluency with languages. Most students know three languages: Finnish, Swedish, and English.
    “They are way ahead of the game on the language side,” says the National School Boards Association’s Ann Flynn, who made the trip with CoSN. “Nearly every student can communicate in English as well as in their native tongue.”

    Although Finnish children don’t start formal schooling until the age of 7, by the end of their first year, they all know how to read and write, says Bryan Luizzi, principal of Brookfield High School in Connecticut. Luizzi visited the country this year with a Connecticut contingent from Education Connection.

    The third reason is the degree of respect and trust teachers are given in Finland. Walker compared it to the status that doctors enjoy in the United States.

    Flynn agreed, adding, “I was left with the most amazing sense of respect for the teaching profession. It’s how they were viewed in this country 75 years ago.”

    One of the reasons for that reverence is how hard it is to become a teacher in Finland. Only one of eight applicants to teacher education programs is accepted; each teacher has a master’s degree. “The best and the brightest want to become teachers in Finland,” says Keith Krueger, CoSN’s CEO. “In our higher education system, the bottom third of the students are becoming teachers.”

    A member of the National Education Association on the CoSN trip inquired about the teacher salaries, no doubt expecting that Finnish counterparts would be better paid. But it wasn’t the case. Salaries are roughly comparable, and in total Finland spends about $1,200 less per student than the United States’ $8,700 per-pupil average.

    Long-Term Turnaround
    perhaps the most intriguing aspect of Finland’s educational success is the path it took to the top. Thirty-five years ago the country was considered middle-of-the-road or worse educationally. The country eliminated its education inspector and rethought its educational system.

    The most impressive part of Finland’s turnaround for many visitors is the patience the country showed. Of course, this is a country that understands that supplying prenatal vitamins to pregnant women will help pay off in a more productive member of society 25 years later, so long-term thinking isn’t unusual.

    “They made some changes, and then they waited,” says Luizzi. The United States has more of a Christmas tree approach to education reform, he adds. “We are always putting on new ornaments. Finland thinks more strategically.”

    Students start school at age 7 and complete secondary school at 15 or 16. Based on grades, students then go to either vocational school or upper secondary school. Slightly more than half of Finnish students attend upper secondary school.
    While Finland famously supports its residents and students, it is notable to mention what’s missing at its schools. There are no sports teams, no marching bands, no cocurricular activities, and no school busing system.

    Upending Technology Expectations
    the biggest surprise visitors find in Finland schools is a lack of technology. “It was a bit disarming,” Luizzi says. “I didn’t see a single student with a laptop.” He added that outside of school, most students have two or three cell phones, with many of them boasting better features than Americans see.

    Walker says the people on the CoSN trip were disappointed by what they didn’t find. While there are computers available and students searching for digital information, “I would say in any semi-wealthy U.S. school district, you’d see more technology.”
    One anecdote that truly illuminates the difference between U.S. and Finnish culture came when visitors asked librarians how they filter the Internet for students. Finnish educators didn’t understand the question, Walker says, because the concept was so foreign to them.

    Finally, the two responses the group got were, “Students know these computers are for learning,” and “The filters are in students’ heads.”

    Aspirational Goals
    what parts of the finnish system might be more easily adopted in the United States? There are some areas that, while they aren’t entirely similar, are certainly close enough not to require a sea change in this country.

    While there’s much discussion in the U. S. about data-driven decision-making and moving to individualized instruction for each student, Finland seems to have achieved this goal in a more organic way.

    “Everyone owned each student,” Walker says. “In the U.S., we would be, ‘He’s in Mrs. Smith’s class.’ In Denmark and Finland, the ownership was by the entire faculty. They felt responsible, and the learning was more individualized.”
    Flynn says teachers focus less on data-driven decisions and more on differentiated instruction—partly the result of high-quality teachers, and partly because they know their students better.

    The country’s upper secondary schools have 70-minute classes, echoing the block schedule still used by some high schools here. While the length of the school year is similar between countries, Finland’s courses are split into six-week units, Luizzi says. It’s a modular approach, with students having to pass each section before moving on.

    The last major change in education Finland made was to loosen the national curriculum and give teachers more control. “They still give out objectives and expected outcomes,” Luizzi says, “but they allow teachers to determine how to get there.” This, of course, is counter to the direction that the U.S. education system has been heading.

    Summing Up
    so what’s the big lesson that educators are going to take away from Finland? “We won’t find quick fixes here,” says Krueger. “But there are a lot of lessons to be learned.” Finland’s non-competitive ethos, for example, flies in the face of No Child Left Behind’s high-stakes, high-competition regulations. In Finland, schools aren’t ranked against each other, teachers don’t face formal reviews, and students aren’t under intense pressure to get into college.

    Krueger says the care Finland has taken to create a “good learning environment” shouldn’t be lost on policy makers in this country. “Our obsession with testing doesn’t mean we are doing better.”

Wednesday, 23 July 2008

  • The summer of learning -- and other things

    I'm teaching the girls how to read instructions and thus cook or bake as a result. Emily wanted a box of Kraft Mac and Cheese for lunch so I'm having her read the box and follow each step. I know they've learned a little bit about following instructions at school, but I thought they needed some practical experience to drive home the lessons. Later they'll bake a cake and some cupcakes for their daddy -- again, they'll be learning about following instructions... and I'll drive home some kitchen hygiene too. LOL.

    In other news I had to explain to Emily that the symbol for a handicapped parking stall is not an image of a person on a toilet. She genuinely thought that it meant "occupied" and that's why we never parked there. LMAO!

    And last night she was trying to super glue something together, panicked when she got the items stuck to her finger sand ran into the living room yelling, "Get them off! They're stuck to me!" And of course I snatched the items off her fingers only to find them quite stuck to my own fingers. ROFL! She comes by it all very honestly. *guilty look* I then showed her the miraculous properies of nail polish remover.

Thursday, 10 July 2008

  • A copy from main Xanga and a followup on Sophie

    My instincts were right

    Sophie had her doctor's appointment today (July 9) and the doctor affirmed that it was definitely high time I bring Sophie in since she hadn't seen a pediatrician since we lived in California. I expressed my concerns over her weight and Jeff's family history and we went right to work on things. First of all, Sophie's 91 pounds. She's 49 3/4 inches tall. She's a little taller than most kids her age, but she's also a lot heavier. It was estimated that she should weight a good 30 pounds less for sure. We checked her BMI -- that's body mass index and she's off the charts -- not a good thing. A child in the 95th percentile is considered obese -- she's like in the 105th percentile (her number was 26.6 and 21 puts kids in the 95th) if there's such a thing. Eek! The doctor said she has central obesity -- her tum-tum -- and asked me how Sophie's weighed over the years. Both of my daughters were eight-pound babies, but whereas Emily followed a more sedate route, Sophie sort of... blossomed. I laughingly called her my Buddha baby because she was round and roly-poly. She'd go through growth spurts where she'd slim a bit, but then her appetite would catch her right back up again.

    Anyway, we talked about the diabetes on Jeff's side of the family and Sophie had her blood sugar checked: 80, which is perfectly healthy (she was shocked by the prick though, whoops!). We're going to check her cholesterol and a few other things with another blood test next week, and the doctor wants to see her every six months from now on. I feel vindicated that my instincts were right on this one. I am so glad to hear the most important thing though: Sophie is basically a very healthy little girl who's had her little troubles in the past with reflux and eczema, but overall, is doing just fine and simply needs to adjust her exercise output and her food intake. Yea!

    And that's it. We're about to settle down to some dinner. The girls helped me mix up the dumplings and they really look yummy. Jeff thought he'd be home by five, but uh... he's halfway down to Cottage Grove right now so he won't be home until perhaps seven or eight -- still before I'm home, but I have to take the girls with me. Eek. It's dog obedience night, but my supervisor is moving quickly to increase my nighttime work responsibilities. I need to find a sitter who can handle last-minute notification very soon.

  • What is your stance on religion? Are you a religious person?

    There's entirely too much religion in the world and certainly not enough faith. I would have to say that I'm not a religious person, that my relationship with God, as a Christian, is that of faith, not rite and rote.

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  • I am a mommy of two little girls. Emily is ten and Sophie is 7 1/2. I've been married for 14 years come August. I live in Springfield, Oregon and am originally from Seattle, Washington. I've lived in a number of places... spent my growing up years in Olympia, Washington, returned to Seattle briefly and then moved on, with my husband, to Las Vegas for six years before we settled all too briefly in Marysville, California -- a little town about 40 miles north of Sacramento. We're loving every moment we live in Springfield, which has the best of both worlds as we miss NorCal and we love the Pacific Northwest. That and we can drive to the ocean in an hour or the mountains in about 45 minutes -- wow!

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